My social experiment 

My Core Strengths, According to My Network

Because of my curiousity and constant eager to learn

- I conducted a small social experiment, asking 20 friends (including my partners ex-wife) and colleagues to share Three things they think I excel at.

Their feedback not only warmed my heart but also revealed consistent themes that reflect who I am and how I work. Here’s what they had to say:

  • 1. Very inclusive

    2. Incredibly caring

    3. Creative

    — Veronica, My parters Ex-wife❤️

  • 1. System/Structure

    2. Networking

    3. Creativity/Innovation:

    — Frode Aasland, Significant other & Veronicas ex-husband ❤️

  • 1. Bringing an idea to completion

    2. Building networks

    3. Spreading good vibes

    — Kjetil Melkevik, Standup Comedian and Comedy Box Collaborator

  • 1. You are incredible at creating enthusiasm in others for the things you’re passionate about.

    2. You are highly creative and turn both small and big ideas into reality.

    3. You’re great at providing constructive and generous feedback.

    — Kristina, Collaborator, Ungt Entreprenørskap

  • 1. Meeting People:
    You communicate creatively, leading to exciting conversations by asking unconventional questions.

    2. You seem fearless and very confident in yourself.

    3. Curious and always looking for challenges and new experiences to learn.

    4. Very cool 🤘🥳

    — Tom, Collaborator, Ungt Entreprenørskap

  • 1. You excel at thinking outside the box and finding solutions.

    I will send you the rest tomorrow

    — Kennet Hansen, Former Headhunter Turned Friend

  • 1. You’re great at spotting opportunities.

    2. You have incredible drive.

    3. You use your creativity to solve real challenges.

    (And one more—you are warmhearted!)

    — Cecilie Miller, Recruitment Manager and Coffee friend, Bouvet ASA

  • 1. You’re a great conversationalist

    2. Open-minded

    3. Inclusive —making everyone feel seen.

    Cheering for you, always! 💪🤩🥰

    — Jofrid Åsland, Managing Director, Byrkjedalstunet turned Friend

  • A: Creative Thinking - You see opportunities that others don’t notice.

    B: Effective Networker - You quickly connect with all kinds of people and are willing to make your network available to others.

    C: Gets Things Done - You are action-oriented and efficient when the goal is clear.

    — Vidar Fredriksen, Headhunter

  • 1. Organization/Structure:

    2. Empathy

    3. Humility (e.g. daring to ask questions to see the full picture and gain other perspectives).

    — Arnfinn Matre, Entrepreneurial Network Contact turned close friend

  • 1. Creativity:
    You are great at finding alternative solutions and thinking “outside the box.”

    2. Enthusiasm:
    You dive into your tasks wholeheartedly.

    3. Helpful and a great sparring partner ❤️

    — Hege Kristensen, Former Colleague, Bouvet

  • 1. You’re incredibly solution-oriented and approach problems in a way that avoids taking things personally, striving to understand issues from all perspectives.

    2. You (seem) fearless, throwing yourself into social settings and talking to people as if they’re old friends. You shine with confidence, especially on stage.

    3. You have an incredible eye for capturing cool moments in everyday life and adventures. Your talent for storytelling through film reaches the soul.

    — Nicolas Cassis, Former Colleague, Olavstoppen

  • 1. Caring for those around you.

    2. Innovative.

    3. Independent.

    — Kenneth Jørgensen, Former Colleague and Friend

  • 1. You’re good at organizing,

    2. Seeing the bigger picture,

    3. and inherently creative.

    — David Harestad, Former Neighbor Turned Friend

  • 1. Curious and eager to learn new things.

    2. Open and giving, creating trust and strong connections with others.

    3. Creative and driven—you get things done. Fearless is another way to describe it.

    — Lars Inge Leirflåt, Tech Network Contact Turned Close Friend

  • 1. Creative:
    you find new ways to approach challenges and create solutions

    2. Execution:
    You bring ideas to life, which complements your creativity perfectly.

    You’ve shown resilience and determination, rising above challenges and embracing new opportunities.

    — Torill Hoel, Nordic Edge, Entrepreneurial Friend

  • 1. Strong networking with empathy, creating harmony among people, and being very inclusive.

    2. A great brainstorming partner, sharing ideas and effectively communicating possibilitie

    3. You make things happen with a positive mindset, encouraging others to contribute.

    — Rafal Ziolkowski, Former Colleague and Friend

  • 1. Engaged and committed

    2. Meticulous and precise in your work

    3. Contribute to a great team atmosphere and inspire others

    — Amanda Elvkull, Former Colleague and Roommate on Business Trips

  • 1. You notice and care about those around you.

    2. You’re different from others, bringing unique thoughts, perspectives, and ideas.

    3. You’re curious and eager to learn, and you dare to ask questions, even when it feels embarrassing to do so.

    — Martin Underhaug, Former Colleague, Olavstoppen and Friend

  • 1. Being authentic

    2. Communicating with thoughtful and relevant questions

    3. Trustworthy demeanor

    — Tor Arne, Prometheus Medic, Former Client

  • I’ve seen many of your presentations, so:

    1. You have a complex mindset and valuable insights into current trends.

    2. Your presentation skills are strong.

    3. You have a great sense of humor.

    — Zoltan OT, Former Colleague Olavstoppen and Friend

Key Strengths Identified:

1. Creativity and Problem-Solving

• I’m recognized for thinking outside the box, finding innovative solutions, and turning ideas into actionable results.

• “You’re incredibly creative and great at finding alternative solutions while thinking outside the box.” – Hege Kristensen

2. Collaboration and Empathy

• I build strong connections, foster trust, and create inclusive environments where others feel seen and heard.

• “You’re very good at networking and connecting people, with a deep sense of empathy and harmony.” – Frode Aasland

3. Enthusiasm and Drive

• I approach challenges with energy, determination, and a positive mindset, inspiring others along the way.

• “You jump into tasks with your whole heart and inspire enthusiasm in those around you.” – Kristina, Ungt Entreprenørskap